High, Low, and Intermediate Diplomacy

Sometimes I get so high on my good fortune and the fact that my talent is really appreciated. Other times I wonder, does anyone know? Does anyone care? Is it all pointless? Case in point - I wrote a nice email to a potential agency as a follow-up after my audition a while back, and no one responded. I subsequently wrote a more hard-hitting note. Still, no response. My friend, a well respected actor, who had introduced me to the agency, and who read my email, expressed the opinion that my approach was a bit heavy handed. The next day I found this in my in-box:

July 27, 2009
Seeing Your Perfection
Letting Your Light Shine

We are each born into this world with unique gifts. Within us is a glimmer of the divine, a light that can potentially make the world a more beautiful place. But in many, that light lies dormant, snuffed out by fears and feelings of inadequacy. To spark it is to attract attention, face the possibility of rejection or the responsibility of success, and risk being labeled immodest. Yet when we undermine the light by hiding our aptitudes and quashing our dreams, we deny ourselves and others a wealth of experiences. Your abilities are a part of who you are and when you take pride in them, you affirm the love, esteem, and trust with which you view yourself. Moreover, as you express the light within, you grant others permission to do the same, freeing them to explore their own talents.

For some, we are taught to hide our light from the world since childhood. Relatives caution us that the professions associated with our aptitudes are unattainable. Our peers may be envious of our skills and thus overly critical of the activities we instinctively enjoy. And authority figures admonish us to be humble and avoid showing off. But there is a vast chasm that separates those who let their light shine and those who seek only to draw attention to themselves. When you dare to share your light with the world, the beauty and perfection of your soul become clearly visible. You become a whole being, the literal embodiment of your vast potential. Whether you are a wonderful dancer, a first-rate cook, quick with numbers, or a natural negotiator, you'll come to understand that you do the world no favors when you hold yourself back.

If you have hidden your light for so long that it has shrunk to an ember, make a list of everything you do well, however impractical, silly, or seemingly inconsequential. Then ask yourself how you can positively utilize those abilities in your daily life. The gifts you were born with were not granted to you arbitrarily. While you may never discover what impact your light has had on others, you can be certain that when you embrace your talents and share them with others, you will spread illumination in the world.

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All the above made me think about my message to the agency, the value of my actor friend, and how hiding one's light under a bushel never really works. On the other hand, I do get it - talented people surely have to play the cards they're given, and become adroit at that devilish game of diplomacy.